Check out the fantastic blog by Lisa Hassan Scott, an LLL leader.
"To continue to tell ourselves and others that babies should be happy to be put down, that a “good” baby is a “contented” baby who demands little of her mother, and that babies who want to be close to their mothers are somehow difficult is to continue to propagate misinformation that does a disservice to today’s mothers and babies, as well as mothers and babies of the future."